Christmas can be about receiving too.

I propose that it can be easier at times to give than receive. Perhaps that is the real reason that the commercialization of Christmas has gotten out of hand. We "learn our lessons" from previous years, and ensure that this year there won't be so much as a cookie crumb that comes our way without something in our hands to give in exchange. Every year, there are more and more gifts to be bought to cover ourselves.

This year, try it out. If there is someone for whom you are not particularly inclined to shop, try just letting it be. Perhaps you'll guess right, and they won't get you anything either. Or perhaps you'll have a chance to practice receiving without giving. It can be hard, but it is a great opportunity to start forming a habit of gratitude, joy, humility. Whether we want to admit it or not, we can all use an extra dose of that ... Just be sure to look the giver in the eyes and express yourself sincerely.

They won't feel left out a bit.