Work in Progress

Stephen Covey says in his book Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families,which I wholeheartedly recommend, that family members (especially children) should all walk around with shirts on that say "Work In Progress". He is trying to remind us that it is important to be patient with those around us, especially with children and with those in our families.

Think of how the world could change if we all took this to heart. Think of how your own actions or responses would change, knowing that others are going to give you the benefit of the doubt. Take a step back, and look at your children, your spouse.

How have they made progress over the years, even though they are not perfect?

How have you made progress personally that is deserving of recognition by you?

How can you make progress going forward?

What is one little change you could make in your daily habits or attitudes or dealings with others that could make a significant difference in how you treat others, how you react to certain triggers, and how you go about life in general? Make a resolution today -- and really mean it! Perhaps it is something small: "I will smile and say hello first when walking into a room." Just try something out and see what it does for you.