Work in Progress

Stephen Covey says in his book Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families,which I wholeheartedly recommend, that family members (especially children) should all walk around with shirts on that say "Work In Progress". He is trying to remind us that it is important to be patient with those around us, especially with children and with those in our families.

Think of how the world could change if we all took this to heart. Think of how your own actions or responses would change, knowing that others are going to give you the benefit of the doubt. Take a step back, and look at your children, your spouse.

How have they made progress over the years, even though they are not perfect?

How have you made progress personally that is deserving of recognition by you?

How can you make progress going forward?

What is one little change you could make in your daily habits or attitudes or dealings with others that could make a significant difference in how you treat others, how you react to certain triggers, and how you go about life in general? Make a resolution today -- and really mean it! Perhaps it is something small: "I will smile and say hello first when walking into a room." Just try something out and see what it does for you.

Love Notes

Here is what is up on my dry erase board in the kitchen:

"Who is the wonderful person who straightened out the videos and made them look so nice?
Thank you!"

It's one of my children, I'm sure.

How do you think it will make that child feel?
How will this make them feel about doing things for me in the future?
What does this tell them about doing things without being asked?
How do you feel when someone expresses gratitude for something you've done, especially if you were thoughtful enough to do it without being asked?

Try it yourself. Write a note to a spouse, a friend, a child, and thank them or compliment them. This small thing can start a wonderful ripple effect of kindness and goodwill within your family.

New Phone Number

There was a mix-up at the phone company, and my toll-free number has changed. It is now 866.488.2694. I still love to give out sample sessions, so call and schedule one today. Find out for yourself what a personal Parent Coach can do for you, both as a parent and as an individual.

The little mixup with the phone number means that I will be reprinting my collateral, but that's okay because I would love to try a different approach. I am here, ready and able, to help moms who are feeling completely overwhelmed, but I would also like to appeal to those moms who feel like things are OK but they are ready to take things to the next level. Having your own personal Parent Coach is quickly becoming the newest way modern moms can do it all and have it all. With a personal coach in their corner, they can stay organized, on top of things, and still have time to nourish and create fulfilling relationships with those around them.